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This will usually manifest into a situation where you will compromise who you are, what you want from a relationship, as well as your basic needs - Just for the simple satisfaction of not being alone.So if your contemplating returning to your ex lover, it's important to ask yourself if you are returning because you are afraid to be alone. If that is the case http://www.scarperunningsaldi.it/ , then possibly address the fear itself which will prevent the situation from becoming much worse down the road.Question #2: Was the relationship really that great?It's always interesting that immediately following a breakup we tend to focus on all the good times we shared. We remember the trips we took, the places we went, and the memories we shared. We tend to forget how bad things really were. 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However, just remember that you cannot change the stripes on a zebra, meaning that people very rarely change.You will want to take a good hard look at why the relationship ended in the first place and decide for yourself - Is this something I can live with?Question #4: Do you attach your happiness to your ex?Let's face it adidas scarpe outlet , being in love feels good! Whenever you are in love the world seems to be a better place and when you are not in love, things don't always seem so great. But it is a very dangerous proposition to attach your overall happiness to your relationship. By attaching your happiness to your relationship you essentially give another person complete control over your happiness. This responsibility is not fair to them and dangerous to you.Before heading back down lover's lane with your ex, you may want to do a reality check. Of course it's natural to feel down and out about a breakup, especially when it is a fresh and it hurts the most. 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