How do you meet the woman or man in your life if you haven't already done so? If
you're tired of the same old dating scene
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then I have a few really great ideas that may help brighten your prospects.
If you don't already have a woman or a man in your life, it may seem
extraordinarily hard to meet the right person. Maybe you've done the online
dating scene and found that it isn't all that it's hyped up to be. Often, the
people involved (men and women) don't measure up to their profiles or pictures.
Because we have a select group of friends, we tend to see the same people at all
the functions, B-B-Q's, parties and other events. Same faces with the same
stories that become all too familiar. So where do you meet compatible and
available singles?
Before I go any further, let me preface this by
stating something I am certain everyone has heard. Before you can find the
"right person
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You can be given all the information you need to find someone, but if you are
the same person with the same values and belief's about yourself you have always
held, you will attract the same. The law of attraction is: Similar kinds attract
similar kinds. So first you must get your own life together and stop putting out
the "I'm desperate to be in a relationship, and if I just found one, I would
calm down and be happy." You need to calm down and be happy before you meet the
right person or you will end up in the same cycle you have always been, "with
the wrong person."
Enough of that...lets move onto the dating room. The
dating room is a place I define where someone can go in order to meet other
singles with similar interests. A good way to begin to find your dating room is
to think about things that interest you (maybe you have always wanted to try
skiing) or hobbies you already have. Once you do this, you can find a club that
caters to people of that specific interest. All across America there are car
clubs, sports clubs
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clubs, snow clubs, dog clubs, you name it.
Once you have a few ideas
written down, you can begin to gather the necessary information about the clubs
or events that occur in your city or region. Look in your local newspaper for a
variety of interesting options
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breakfasts, charity singles auctions (where dates with local men and women are
auctioned off for charity), travel tours, public dances (ones not held in a bar
or a pub, such as a beginner's square dance), charity events or even a beginners
salsa dance night. For dances, make sure that it's not a "partner necessary"
event by calling ahead.
Other search options are to type in your
Internet Browser: www.citysearch to find out the local happenings in your area.
Another effective way to meet someone would be to volunteer for a
charity
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United Way or UNICEF, to name a few. It's important to participate with
sincerity, but you may also meet your soul mate there. You may find someone who
will most likely have the same philanthropic views that you do.
Finally,
while I don't know anyone who has participated in the Singles International
Club, I have heard of it. Check out your local chapter (search the Internet for
specifics) as they hold dances and picnics for singles to meet. They also have
the Singles Travel International Club. This is just a short list of good meeting
places to get the ball rolling. However, no matter which place you choose to
go
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try to be "suave" or "debonair." Be yourself. Smile so that your eyes shine and
be genuine. You will go much further if you behave in a kind manner than if you
put on an act.
The point is to think outside the box. Here are a few
more ideas for you to grab onto: Go to a super market at a specified time (I
explain this technique in my book, Winning Points with the Woman in Your Life
One Touchdown at a Time, but it's too lengthy to go over here), go to your local
coffee shop, search your local newspaper for social events such as holiday hay
rides, pancake breakfasts, library socials, etc.
A little side note for
those of you who are bitterly shy: In a football game
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period of time without attempting to score points. You can't "freeze" if you
want to participate in the game of love. You MUST forgo shyness. You will never
make it onto the playing field until you do. There is nothing anyone can say or
do, no magic potions or pills and no amount of coaching that will do this for
you. Practice in the mirror or on a friend to help you overcome it. Join a
theater group and get on stage. That will throw you into the spotlight and may
help you overcome your fears.
Many of you are reading this article
because you have had the same results in your dating experiences over and over
again. How can you change that pattern? It's a very easy solution, but one that
takes a lot of work when you have a pattern you have engrained in your
subconscious mind and that is: If you want the same results, do the same things
you have always done. If you want different results, you must do something
different!
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